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Should you freeze your eggs?

By Joanne Pounder

The chance to prolong fertility until you’re ready for a baby – or you’ve met Mr Right – is now possible through egg freezing.


So, should you?


Jennifer Aniston and a host of other celebrities have done it. Should you?

At my book club recently we had a lively debate about baby names because one of the women in the group was about to have her first baby. Everyone joined in with their favourites, including one of the women who excitedly told the group she knows exactly what all three of her babies will be called.

I was a little taken aback by her conviction for one simple reason: this woman is fast approaching 40 and doesn’t have a boyfriend, let alone a life partner with whom she wants to have a baby.

She is, of course, like so many women you and I know, very attractive, incredibly successful and thoroughly independent. Like most privileged women of our generation, she was encouraged by her parents to get an education, to travel and to pursue a career. She’s done all of those things.

What our parents didn’t encourage us to do was pursue a man, a life partner. That, our parents and we assumed, would simply fall into place sometime along the way, and children would come soon after – the life puzzle complete.
Yet my friend’s life, like so many of our generation, has that last piece of puzzle missing. It is – it may not be politic to mention – a really dark blank for so many women. You can meet a man at any age but once you get to 40-plus you are at great risk of being too old to have your own biological child.

But now there is some real hope that, by freezing a cycle of eggs (cryopreservation), a woman can have a baby later in life, allowing her to extend her fertility until Mr Right walks into view or, in the case of a woman who has the man and the career, until she feels the time is right to have a baby. When she finds a partner or is in a position to take a career break, she can have her eggs thawed and use routine IVF procedures to get pregnant.

What makes egg freezing so exciting is it doesn’t pose the same moral and ethical dilemmas that embryo freezing does. While some couples have no problem with the concept of embryo freezing, others find it ethically confusing. For those who believe life begins at the moment of conception, each frozen embryo represents a life, and if unused, a life left unfulfilled. Egg freezing, like sperm freezing, presents us with the opportunity to extend ones fertility without these issues. If the eggs are not used, they are simply destroyed, or donated.

The main way in which age affects fertility is its impact on the quality of a woman’s eggs. A woman is born with her lifetime’s supply of eggs. Each month, when her period starts, she sheds one or so of those eggs. As time passes, age takes its toll on the remaining eggs and their quality deteriorates, making them less likely to be fertilised by a sperm to create a healthy baby. This is also why the risk of a baby being born with a chromosomal defect rises with age.

Before the age of 35, the odds of a woman falling pregnant naturally each cycle is around 25 per cent if she has intercourse at the right time and her partner has healthy sperm. When she reaches 35, that figure begins to drop off so that by the time a woman is 40, the chance of her falling
pregnant with each cycle drops to 10 per cent and, by the time she hits 45, that percentage is close to zero.

Of course, these percentages are only statistics; we all know women who have fallen pregnant naturally during their 40s. Lifestyle also influences fertility. A woman who has looked after herself physically is far more likely to have a baby at a later age than someone who has neglected or abused her health. Book club didn’t feel the right time to do it, but I really wanted to suggest to my friend that she considers freezing her eggs. Of course, such a procedure can seem drastic (as well as expensive), something for the Jennifer Anistons of the world. It is fraught with fear, confusion and misinformation.


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