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Should you have an amnio?

By Joanne Lillie

The decision is one of the most difficult you’ll have to make during your pregnancy, so consider it with care and knowledge.


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The risks associated with an amniocentesis – one in 100 women miscarry as a result of the procedure – mean that it’s not routinely offered to all expectant moms. Yet, it’s a test that provides information – the diagnosis of Down’s syndrome, most commonly, and other chromosomal and genetic abnormalities – that cannot be definitively diagnosed any other way.

The thought of a long needle piercing the sacred amniotic sac and disturbing the precious bundle growing there made my heart race. Would it be painful? What if something went wrong and we lost our baby? These are the questions my husband, Scott, and I battled with when our foetal-medicine specialist told us our circumstances meant that we should consider having an amnio.

The assessments done at our 13-week ultrasound scan showed nothing untoward but, because of my age (our baby would be born just after my 35th birthday) and because we’d lost a previous pregnancy due to a genetic anomaly, our odds were elevated.

If your chances of having a seriously disabled child are greater than the risk of miscarriage, your fears are put into perspective very quickly. We decided to go ahead. We wanted science and numbers on our side. To be able to know and prepare was better than not knowing. It certainly helped that we trusted implicitly the specialist doing the procedure. I knew if anyone could limit the risks to my baby and myself, this doctor could.

An amnio is usually performed between 14 and 18 weeks, and many parents choose to have the amnio as soon as possible. We opted to delay ours to 16 weeks because waiting reduces the chances of miscarriage to one in 400. The procedure was not pleasant but it was not painful. My anxiety was all mental and emotional. When we left the doctor’s rooms, we stood still in the passage and I buried my face in my husband’s chest. The tears streamed unceasingly as the anxiety I had felt for the weeks leading up to the procedure lifted. The feeling of relief was matched only by the news a few weeks later that the results were clear. Now it was real; we were having a baby and she was perfect.


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Natalie

2010-07-23 11:24

This is so difficult for me.ON the one hand I am also turning 35 during my pregnancy and my doctor kept asking about the test.On the one side my husband feels we shouldn't do it because of the risk but on the other hand I know that I would not be able to 'cope' with raising a DS child. My aunt had a DS baby who is now 23 and seeing what she went through makes me feel that I couldn't possibly do that. I feel selfish feeling this way though but want the test done




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